Discussion Boards - Agony without the Aunt

Have you ever gone to see who has viewed your profile and found that people of the same sex have paid a visit?

Im interested in peoples thoughst about this. Does it freak you out and concern you a little or do does it not bother you all that much?

Dave

Hi Davey Poo !
I have done that myself, just to see their story etc .

One of my favourite quotes is:-
WHO ARE YOU, when no-one is looking ?

Hi Cossie Wossy

Mmmm i totally understand the part about wanting to check out their story, i still find it a little strange though...after all it is a dating site

Hey dAVE,

Your their competition so maybe they are looking for a competitive edge on you or just getting an idea on what others are writing.... don't be too paranoid hahaha!

Just my thoughts, I find it hard to be suspicious until it's in my face, a flaw of mine being too trusting and thinking good of people I guess.

Hi Ash its been ages dude

Yeah i guess so..I dont think im that much competion haha, im not even a paid member. Not paranoid but i guess i just find it strange.

I will get over it though

I had left for a bit but then I thought id have a squiz on here again, only just realised I could post and not be a paid member.. that's cool.. :)

Things are going well here, l;oving Jesus :) went to seen john piper the other night in Sydney, was great and challenging.... don't waste the time we have was the basic message :)

grace and Peace guys.

Ash

I like what you said Ash "You're their competition so maybe they are looking for a competitive edge on you or just getting an idea on what others are writing" I think that is true of many, plus we can get so bored just hanging around waiting on this site, so looking at others profiles (male or female) fills in some time.

By the way, I would have just given you a "thumbs up Ash", but for some strange reason the "thumbs up button" it is not working for me.

I've had two girls' check me out this week and I find it very creepy and an unsettling.... Hmmm... wierd

Call me weird then lol. Also if someone posts on the boards and I find them interesting, male or female, then I want to look at their profile to learn a little more about them. I have befriended more females on this site than men, and I enjoy chatting with the females at night, so really it is fine to have either male or female check us out. It is not a Gay dating site, so no need for worry in that department. hehehe

I find that the more stuff I post on the boards the more people (both male and female) check out my profile. I do the same, I kinda want to know who I'm talking to. I think it is a bit about 'who is this person?' (in a nice way). Also: when I first joined, I looked at a few women's profiles to find out how women were writing profiles.

But it is possible to select just 'friendship' as the thing people are seeking. :D

P.S. @Camilla: make that 3 now! :P
@Cossie: We haven't chatted in ages! (Probably because I'm not paid-up). :D

lol !!!!!!.... hmmm... fair enough :-) sounds good. would actually love to make some female friends on here. I have been quiet and hiding for too long ! x

Let's all go check out Camilla's profile!! :p

lol !!.. he he

I sometimes check out other women's profiles to get to know more about them when they are contributing to the boards. And sometimes I accidentally click on the person's profile instead of the topic of the board.... That's when I am having a 'senior's' moment or just being dyslexic.