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149 posts / Last post: cossie100, 3 months ago
Missing50x50
User36723 (3 months ago)
This post was deleted at 06:05, Sat 24 Mar 2012.
March 3rd 2012

What do men think of women with their toe nails painted ? Is it nice or not or meh !

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Wow there's a spectrum of questions - closure and toenails!

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Missing50x50
User4875 (3 months ago | Report post)

Do men really prefer curves?

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Men who ride motorbikes prefer curves. [too late at night for the serious answers.]

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Missing50x50
User36723 (3 months ago)
This post was deleted at 06:05, Sat 24 Mar 2012.

Do men get scared when women ask a whole pile of questions at once haha! Sorry - I'll let you continue......

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Missing50x50
User4875 (3 months ago | Report post)

Since a womanly figure is naturally curvy, bikers must be the only ones with real taste for real women then!!!

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Greg700 (3 months ago)
This post was deleted at 00:10, Wed 07 Mar 2012.
Missing50x50
User4875 (3 months ago | Report post)

Greg, are you saying that men as breadwinners have control over women financially and therefore there is less chance of women leaving when they are reliant on this money?

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Missing50x50
User36723 (3 months ago)
This post was deleted at 06:05, Sat 24 Mar 2012.
March 3rd 2012

Hey Michelle......you said women are not to answer !!!!! Just couldn't help yourself huh ? lol

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Missing50x50
User36723 (3 months ago)
This post was deleted at 06:06, Sat 24 Mar 2012.

If you have a bunch of questions to ask anyone, it is likely that you have thought [and stewed over] them for a reasonable time. Don't expect an immediate answer or rush to interpret that answer into the framework of your "what ifs". If you have spent hours mulling over it then give the guy a chance unless you just want a superficial one of course.

Don't be reactive. Don't jump in the first time you hear something you want to take issue with.
If you don't like the answer you get, don't try to reason or cajole the person into what you think they should feel/think/believe. Multiple questions don't allow for a considered answer to those questions and you are likely just to put the person into a defensive mental state. Most of us can also feel when there is an agenda to a line of questions and it can feel quite violating.

"Quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger"

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Missing50x50
User36723 (3 months ago)
This post was deleted at 06:06, Sat 24 Mar 2012.
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